lthough the legacy mum along with dad has left is a wealth of loving and good people they have nurtured , and guided through thick n thin and best way to cope with our loss is to remember the good times we shared , mum was like a swiss army wife , who would look after us , feed us , never mind jesus with his loaves n fishes , mum made do with bread n jam. was always there when we were in trouble , and made sure we were clothed and ready for school although going to school with jelly bean sandals n duffle coats might not been the best look but sure toughened us up , and shaped us into what we are ? mad